The nature of life is for things to rub against each other and create friction. We all get lost, we all make mistakes, we all get ill and eventually we all die. If you can accept this, you can relax in life. We experience ourselves in the things we love more. That is why when we lose the things we love, we feel very hurt. Everyone is faced with that choice at some point - when a person does not get what he/she wants, or when a loved one dies, either you can blame God or you can turn and face the fire. You can look honestly at yourself and enter into a process of change. If we tighten in fear, we hinder new life from being born. It's not easy to relax in pain but if you can do it, you can see new life being born. You are more precious than everything else, so always try to save yourself in any situation. When you have lost everything - even after that you have something left and that is yourself. So forget what is lost and take that which still exists for you, this is the best formula for attaining a happy life.
There are some people who complain regardless. Complaining is a way of life for them & they cannot stop cribbing. Such kind of people do not take responsibilities for their actions. Their energy and intellect are so focused on finding faults, so they cannot focus on achieving their goals. So please stop cribbing about what you don't have and look what is there for you. When we complain and criticize constantly, we are inviting negativity in our life.
The most senseless complains are -
1: weather is too hot or too cold
2: traffic is too bad
3: nobody cares for me
3: nobody cares for me
4: nobody appreciates me or nobody listens to me
These are all negative thoughts of your mind. Please become less of a complainer and more thankful, than your problems will automatically dissolve. Instead of criticizing every situation, let us use our time in something productive because time is very precious. Nothing is more precious than time because time is equal to life. Wasting your time means wasting your life - so please take very good care of your time EVERY ACTION IS HAPPENING ACCORDING TO A COSMIC LAW ". it is not something done by any human being means we can't blame anyone for whatever happens in life. difference in views and thinking are deeply rooted in this universe ,if every body thinks alike what will be there to think but we have no right to think that i am always right because truth can be seen from many angles and expressed in many ways you must have to except it . when there are differences in opinion among people it paves the way for dialogue, which in turn foster creative and intellectual development hence differences are good for wisdom. God does not design people or circumstances according to our taste, so let others behave as they want -- this is not within your control any way so don't complain for anything and try to make balance with it . you are not an isolated entity in this world but an essential piece of puzzle of humanity so try to locate properly in this cosmic world. as you grow older your mind encounters rigid frames of -like,dislike,opinion ,fear, greed etc influenced by your background and we get imprisoned by what we know. your struggle is to see that the other people fits in to your views and this is very complicated way of living and reason for complaining every thing and this is not good . actually the good and bad all live within us only our free choice determines the direction to go.let us respect the differences and recognize that we do not serve an ideology, we serve the people.
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