Life!!

You are not here accidentally, you are here meaningfully. There is a big purpose behind you. We all have come on this earth for some days to play, we are a guest on this earth so every body has to go from here after some time. Body is an instrument by which we can act and play our role on this planet. The whole of your life from the moment you are born to the moment you die is a process of learning. This whole process of accumulating information gradually becomes our knowledge, which is essential at certain level of our life to find a way through all the turmoils. We have to cultivate the feeling to see how the knowledge is used for a good purpose. Price is what you pay, value is what you get!

Life is always miserable - when you know your own value, you will not cry in any situation. Greatest challenge of life is to find who are you. Being happy with what you have and eliminating desire will make you free from stress. Every body is born with a gifted talent - identify it and invest your energy in it, You will always be happy and successful. Life is mobile,it flows like water in a river. Time flies as if it has wings; time and tide wait for nobody. A fallen leaf can never be placed on the branch it was born on. A good example is human life. Your childhood, your youth can never be return in life. The only thing that remains is just memories of the past. Time will change, the condition of your body will change, then why try to halt the flow of time. It is better to go with the flow, always remember the good times. Don't expect too much in life. Expectations are always painful. Past is gone, present is bypass and the future is yet to come. So why feel depressed, just enjoy the life as it comes in front of you. Human birth is priceless. Human being is the greatest being on this earth. Even the Gods have to come here through the human body. Therefore be awake and make the best of this priceless human body by developing the deep love in your heart for everyone. Take very good care of your body, because we can't do anything without it.

Happy at Sixty:-D

What do you mean by age? It is nothing more than a number. This is only the time we spend on this earth from the moment we are born. As we proceed on the pathway of life, we gain so much of knowledge and experience. That's why the older generation is more experienced than the new generation. Is there any science to live agelessly?. No, it is an art! 

Looking good and ageing well are an essential part of our life. Growing old need not be a graceless process. In fact it is important to retain grace as we age. A comfortable old age is the reward of a well spent youth. The most beautiful makeup of a women is passion. It is essential that we keep seeking knowledge - learn a foreign language, music, do sudokus or solve crosswords; do anything to keep your neural pathways firing. It keeps you young. Exercise daily to keep your joints flexible. Yoga is excellent for anti-ageing. Age is strongly related to your state of mind. There are people in their 70s who are more active than those in their 20s.

If you are passionate, love challenges and don't allow boredom to set in, you will feel younger. Share of grey population is approximately 9% of the country's total population. These are the people who hold loads of knowledge and experiences that can be utilized effectively to handhold youth, nurture society, mentor junior's, support a good cause and endless other avenues. All this is possible only when they feel respected, supported, cared for and continue to feel loved and wanted. Productive channelization of their time and experiences can make tremendous changes in our society. They can work as an extended arm of the family and make the home happy. This would be a humble beginning towards keeping the smile and pride alive on the faces of our seniors. If we want to transform structural inequality and embody the highest aspiration of all people to uphold human honour and dignity, we must have to do it. 

No longer being burdened with looking younger, enjoy the freedom and empowerment that comes with age and wisdom. So age with grace, intelligence and sensitivity. Lead such a life that when you die, people may mourn you; and while you are alive they love your company. ageing is a natural phenomenon and must be embraced . as a person ages his body weakens physically but not his mind,and physical limitation  is no longer a disabling aspect of life . all one needs is a developed mind and capacity to think and learn, in other words as one ages his mind becomes more competent with years of wisdom and experience. in old age the mind continues to produce as many neurons as it did in earlier age. ageing is not the beginning  of a countdown but it is the time for a count up . the world can benefit greatly from the wisdom of aged, in fact this is the nature,s way of enabling man to pass on his wisdom to succeeding generations because new generations are always in need of this unique gift. old generation is a prolific source of  guidance and advice . the key aspect of old age is maturity, not longevity.

A Shocking Truth

My husband's death was such a sudden shock for me. I couldn't even understand the situation; I was totally numb. "What will happen now, I don't even know how will I survive without him" - such were the questions bouncing in my mind. But after sometime, I realised the situation and took this shock as a stepping stone of my life. Shock is a great educator, it sets the process of brainstorming and then a whole new mindset takes shape in us, a new human personality emerges. Shock stimulates your mind and unfolds your hidden potential. So this is only the greatest positive factor in our life. Actually shock is not an accident, it is the language of nature that speaks in the language of shocks. Shock treatment is the law of nature -  you may call it a challenge or a nature call. If you are facing some problem in life, don't be negative because nature always tries to give you a lesson to unfold your hidden potential. If you use it wisely, it can turn your failure into success. Nature is the best guide and it always acts for the betterment of the humanity. Try to understand the lesson hidden in it, because all this is a part of divine planning. Nobody can change it. This is eternal. Those who listen to this silent voice of nature are destined as super achievers.
       There is nothing that is purely ours ,every thing in this universe is created by god ,every possession we have is given by him he can take it back anytime . Every personal crises can be a powerful teacher towards fulfilling the purpose of life . life is always shocking but you must never appeared to be shocked ,no matter how good or bad it is .every phase of life will passes with time because nothing is stable here. life is very complex with its unexpected twist and turns,we must learn to have a confidence in ourself so that we can face any kind of situation in life. sudden loss of our loved once in life gives a sudden shock and creates deep trauma in mind and heart. time does heal it to some extent but it still remains as a scar inside ,life is not to concern oneself with what has been lost ,but by wise planning to avail of what is still left now we have only one option to find a way of adjustment between our ambition and available resources. when we meet real tragedy in life we can react in two ways - either by loosing hope or by using the challenge to find our inner strength. we don,t even know how strong we are until we are forced to bring that hidden strength forward. in times of tragedy people do amazing things, this is the irony of life. Tragic events in our lives has not been caused by our actions .adversity is supposed to refine human character . we find that the growth  of any kind takes place only after pain and  only human beings have the potential of converting their suffering into achievement. tragedy does not depends on circumstances but it only depends on our response in that situation. change for the better is always comes after a hopeless situation,when pain becomes unbearable it turns into remedy deep pain and trauma gave birth to stronger determination means traumatic occurrences also have positive sides. every person needs a shock treatment this is the course of nature without passing through it you will not able to achieve great success.everyone is born with a great potential and this comes out only in difficult situations.shocks are alarming reminders to connect with our inner source of wisdom. weather we like it or not , loss is an inevitable part of our existence it can come into our life in many different forms. at each turn of life a profound beauty is waiting to unravel itself, looses may also bring hidden opportunities for our growth. this is the right  time to start exploring your potential, do not try to save it for another life time. we are a part of the cosmic self and come into existence to fulfill the divine agenda