Life is a Gift, enjoy it before it ends

In every difficulty there is an opportunity. Life is really a choice........

   If one door closes another door opens.Question is indeed a sign of strength, but quietness may also help you to achieve strength. Silence is the language of God. Whatever happens will happen, but it's very important to value every minute of your life because you got to live it just once. To live best for yourself ,you must live for others too. Never hurt others by your actions. To build lasting relationships is not an easy thing to do because we always keep looking for comfort zones. This is a grave mistake. A selfless mind can only create a good relationship.

    Self realisation activates our innerself, yet it is entirely our own choice to follow the right or wrong path. Desires are like rubber bands. Once a desire is fullfilled, the mind produces many more desires. Then the mind stretches itself and we get tensed. It is very difficult to get rid of anger, greed, jealousy etc but not impossible. Good qualities appear difficult to cultivate, it takes great effort. Our mental structure is based on this process of choice, so our life is a series of struggles. Joy and misery, pain and pleasure happens only within you. So why try to extract joy from outside.What great things you achieve in your life will depend on your capabilities, the situation and the time.When you came in this world, you came with no investment so whatever happens in your life, anyway you are in profit .Most people live their lives without even knowing what it is that they really want for themselves, they are just settling for whatever is easy, whatever is within their reach.What we want as the highest in life need not have anything to do with our present situation. If you have a clear vision for yourself, it is not beyond your capacity to create it. You give your life towards it .This is one of the easiest way to attain the highest.

   The body is mortal and always held by death .It is the self which is immortal and held by pleasure and pain. So as long as self is in the body you can't get free from pleasure and pain.When self is free from the body then there is neither pleasure nor pain.