Pushpa Khandelwal's Blog

Violence is the use of physical force against another person. We are living in the time of increasing violence. Actions are the loudest expression of thoughts. Violence destroys the moral fabric of humanity, trust and compassion. We built more weapons than toys, raised more soldiers than teachers. This may be the side effect of violence in society today. Law becomes an instrument of control, not justice. According to me, law is against the crime, not the individual. But criminals are not responsible for their crimes; they inherit that tendency. If a man committed rape, it is because of lack of guidance. So punishing anybody for crime is not enough because he needs our sympathy, love and help. Sometimes it is due to their overactive hormones. They need meditation to be taught to calm down. We can transform people who have been victims of violent forces. There is no division in sky, but people create distinction out of their own mind and separate mankind. It breeds violence. Someti...

This world is imperfect, and that’s why it is growing. If it was perfect, it could have been dead, because growth is possible only if there is imperfection. So love and rejoice in this imperfection. Perfection is only fantasy. Why did God have to create this universe when He is complete in Himself? A human being becomes accomplished, yet he is not satisfied until he has created something of substance. This means the search of perfection is as old as human history. We all want to be perfect human beings. Human life would be perfect if — “Anger had a stop button, Mistakes had a rewind button, Hard times had a forward button, And good times had a pause button.” But it is not possible. The greatest excitement of life is in development and progress. If one becomes perfect, it could wipe out all excitement from life. In an ever-evolving life, how can we seek perfection in any state? So the greatest perfection is imperfection. Do the best you can and bring passion to everything you ...

AI is only a kind of mechanism. You are doing it with your brain. All knowledge of AI is borrowed from the human mind. You can train AI with certain data, but nothing in this world can do better than the human mind. AI can be intelligent, but it cannot beat wisdom. Human intelligence is boundless, but AI has its limitations. This unique quality of intelligence differentiates us from AI. The cost of AI growth is sky-high. AI also brings additional dangers with its growth. This bubble will burst after some time. AI has moved from pilots to large-scale use inside companies. The next big gaps are in application and protection against future threats. The issue is not talent; it is timing. Specialized talent takes time to build. But this may not be the case two years later. Dissenting voices against AI are getting louder. I think it is not possible to stop it now, but we must develop solutions to control AI systems. AI is useful on some platforms because it processes data at a scale imp...

Women are the backbone of any society. They are born managers and leaders. Men can inspire us to fight, but women inspire us to unite. A woman brings us to this planet and teaches us how to live. She has both gentleness and strength. Both men and women are equal. Then why are we dividing everything on the basis of gender? Man and woman are like the two wings of a bird. Which eye is more important — right or left? Both are equally important. They both have to support one another; only then can we maintain harmony. As far as birth is concerned, a man’s role is only to give his seed. For him, it is only a moment of pleasure. It is the woman who receives, conceives it for nine months as a part of her being, creates the atmosphere for that life to grow within, and then gives birth to a new life. This is the power of a woman. No man can do it. Men are created from women. The principle of motherhood is as vast and powerful as the universe. If feminism is about equality, then equality should...

The ego is our creation, not God's. Egoism is the attitude of “I” and “mine”. Who are we referring to when we say “I” and “mine”? Is it the body? Do we own our body? How can the body, conceived by our parents and sustained by nature, be ours? What do we give in compensation for the air, water, and light we take from nature? Then how can we say the body is ours?

All things in this world are changing but enlightenment remains the same. nothing can dim the light that shines from within. This is a state  of awareness in which one sees the true nature of things. an enlightenment-ed soul guide us how to think speak and act in such a way that benefits all humanity. enlightenment gives good wisdom and pure healing to all like sun . To lit the inner light of humanity you requires some efforts to control your mind. once you overcome it everything in this world will be more meaningful ,clear and active. negativity of your mind will start to die and positivism will start growing .It reveals secretes of universe and humanity and truths of survival, but the path to reach such a stage is not easy you have to work on it very seriously. all colors of life are needed to paint a beautiful piece of art. The secrete of attaining peace in life is tolerance of disturbance. The real enlightenment is to achieve a mental state that looks with equal ease at happine...

this is the principle of life  everything in this UNIVERSE is created in polarities. this earth is made up of pair of opposites Duality is an essential characteristic of our planet . in our life everything is a set of opposites, if you keep digging and create a valley a mountain also gets created this is the nature in harmony so experience the life in all possible circumstances  good- bad ,dark- light, sweet -bitter don,t afraid of any kind of experience because they made you more mature  .don,t think that your life will always be an upward curve because it,s not possible every plus must be balanced by a minus .it,s either nothing or everything only because of duality , there are equal and opposite forces at every aspect of life. to understand darkness we need light , to know happiness we need to know sorrow. whenever you are miserable you gain sympathy or attention but whenever you are happy people become jealous from you this is called duality.duality is a means of divi...

Discipline is very necessary for good health and happiness. Discipline means the capacity to be. we all have our limitations, these limitations differ from person to person. Actually discipline is to drop negativity and enhance positivity. Challenges help us to grow - so instead of being hamstrung by  these challenges, we should welcome them. Unless we are tested by circumstances, we do not know our own potential. Slowly we learn to let go and stay with things and people with whom we are comfortable. If we want to live a peaceful and purposeful life, we begin  to stay away from the activities that are stressful. Our limitations will teach us to be truly human. Nature provides us with the option of compromise as an effective means to achieve harmony and peace in times of emotional turmoil. We want to only receive all the time. Our greed knows no limits, limits cannot be mathematically defined. Only your heart has to tell you where to stop. Learn to listen to your heart and add ...

The nature of life is for things to rub against each other and create friction. We all get lost, we all make mistakes, we all get ill and eventually we all die. If you can accept this, you can relax in life. We experience ourselves in the things we love more. That is why when we lose the things we love, we feel very hurt. Everyone is faced with that choice at some point - when a person does not get what he/she wants, or when a loved one dies, either you can blame God or you can turn and face the fire. You can look honestly at yourself and enter into a process of change. If we tighten in fear, we hinder new life from being born. It's not easy to relax in pain but if you can do it, you can see new life being born. You are more precious than everything else, so always try to save yourself in any situation. When you have lost everything - even after that you have something left and that is yourself. So forget what is lost and take that which still exists for you, this is the ...

What comes to your mind when you think about mental health? I'll tell you that your thought process is the key for your success along with your attitude and self confidence. Our body is the servant of our mind and mind is nothing but a bundle of thoughts. Thoughts play an important role in our lives. All physical activities originate from the mind, which is the prime mover of all activities. A healthy mind is the key to a healthy body - all successful people have sound mental health. Poor health is not caused by something you don't have, it is caused by disturbing something that you already have. Health always flows from the inner most to the outermost - if our mind is calm and clear, our body will stay healthy. Thought is a tremendous force that shapes our attitude, attitude makes our character and character influences our life. A positive attitude will prevent us from giving up. We cannot accomplish our best work when we are weighed down with negativity.  In today's scen...

"Where there is forgiveness, there is God Himself"                                                     The best deed of a great man is to forgive and forget. Forgiveness is the key that breaks the chain of bitterness. By forgiving the people who have done us wrong, we can give ourselves the greatest gift of  peace. This gives us an opportunity to start afresh or to do better next time. Forgiveness is a choice - so let go of the desire of revenge and commit to learn from our errors. Forgiving frees both - the forgiver and the forgiven, equally on a subtle level. Forgiveness saves your precious time and saves you to face more problems, it is an instant solution for any problem. Revenge always wastes time without any benefit. To forgive means to stop feeling angry, it has more to do with ourselves than others. It comes only when we move out of the...

Every child in this world is unique. There is nothing to become, nothing to achieve - let individuality in the child grow. Acknowledge the potential within the child and help it to blossom to its full potential. Instead of making the child ambitious, you need to recognize the child's talents and nourish it in an atmosphere that encourages individuality. Children are new editions of fresh entries of divinity into life. They are born with the power of grasping fresh knowledge, which is optimum at birth and diminishes with age - so don't suffocate your children with restrictions. But you have to study their natural talent and give proper direction to their fresh energy. This is the best way to guide your children.  Children have their own agendas and try to find out more and more about this world, however each child is nurtured by the goal of ambition through their parents and the society. The child has to prove himself by bringing gold medals and trophies in every fie...

Faith is to believe what you do not see. You are nothing with the potential of everything. Faith is your inner conviction. Faith helps you remain positive. So never lose faith in yourself - you can do anything in this universe.  If we have faith, nothing is impossible. Faith is not something to grasp. It is a state to grow in. It has been repeatedly proven that the things of this world and our own possessions will not be sufficient to keep us happy. People are getting increasingly addicted to a materialistic culture. In the race for bigger and better, we tend to neglect relationships. We forgot to love one another. Love is the binding force that makes us feel connected and secure. Love is the oxygen which sustains positivity and compassion.  Do not limit yourself. You can go as far as your mind lets you. What you believe you can achieve. Faith is the force by which man lives in this society. In the absence of faith, you cannot move forward in life. Faith can...

"Violence is not the nature of man, it is his choice!" Beasts are violent by nature, while man becomes violent by circumstances. There is a great streak of violence in every human being, it will break only in anger and war. Violent actions are the louder expressions of thoughts of mind. Today, we are living in times of increasing violence, we may never be strong enough to be entirely non-violent in thought but we can keep non-violence as our goal and try to progress towards it. Violence towards self also makes us miserable. When a person does not meet his demands he ignores  positive aspects of self  and torture himself ,his focus is only to avoid the pain and this may results in suicide,which is increasing dangerously in these days .usually young generation use it as a short cut .violence is only the battle between good and evil forces and non-violence is a powerful weapon  which can cut everything without wounding. violence is not to be reacted with violence but...

Fasting is a kind of self control and help us to cultivate patience. Actually, fasting is a gift to our over burdened body. Fasting during holy months also burns our ego, pride, anger, hatred etc. and that is true the true meaning of fasting. It is also an opportunity to change our bad habits. By fasting we also learn the art of desire management and this builds our self control. The aim of fasting is to control the dependence on material things - it means getting away from the external world and feeling the internal world with greater depth. Fasting is not only abstaining from food but from the negative habits too. When we fast, our digestive system will get rest for a short period and our body energy will automatically be channelized towards healing. It improves our health and is very good to inculcate a spirit of patience. Actually this is a kind of hunger shock. Hunger is a reminder that food is an important part of our life - in the absence of food it is impossible to cont...

Nature meets all our wants. This world is a quest house. The law of nature represents harmony and unity, we can learn from water to go with the flow - it always flows downward and find a different path by moving itself away from the obstacles. We can also learn from trees to give our free service to humanity.                    Like a huge tree emerges from a tiny seed, this vast universe originates from a tiny egg like structure. All the evolution in this universe is a movement towards perfection - in earth and life on earth. The upsurge of spirit is the only way to stop ecological destruction of our planet, otherwise we will destroy the preconditions for human life on this planet. We call ourselves superior and intelligent but continue to destroy the very things - plants ,trees and animals on which our life depends. The plants and animals can exists comfortably without us but we can not live without them. We always take n...

Yoga means union of soul and supreme soul, man and nature - a harmonious relationship between man and the environment. Yoga connects mind and body through a series of postures, breathing exercises and meditation. Most important contribution of yogic science is it's capacity to inculcate balance between the physical and psychological. In this world of rapid changes, nothing is more crucial than balance. Yoga is an invaluable tool in intense and stressful situations, helping man to maintain psychological balance. Yoga is a path of self discipline and detachment from worldly things. Despite technical growth, the real standard of living in terms of love, happiness and peace has yet to find its roots in our society. Yoga offers a unique way of life to man. It is found that "Prana"  - the body energy is the basic life principle, which acts as a bridge between mind and body. Body and mind are not separate entities but they are interlinked. A calm and peaceful mind a...

There is no end to education. It is not that you read a book, pass the examination and finish your education. The whole life from the moment you are born to the moment you die is a process of learning. EDUCATION IS NOT FILLING A BUCKET but lighting the fire of wisdom. Education through experience is the secret of life. The end product of education should be a free creative person who can battle against circumstances and adversity. Education imparts the knowledge, values and attitude necessary to become a good citizen. You may have acquired good qualifications, you may be earning very well, but unless you understand who you are inside you will never feel satisfied with yourself. Education without wisdom and experience is incomplete. The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and critically, i.e., intelligence plus character That is the goal of true education. Just a formal education is not enough to live. There is a level of natural development of mind ...

Poor health is not caused by something you don't have, it is caused by disturbing something that you already have. If your energy body is in proper balance and full flow, your physical and mental bodies will be in perfect health. There are so many people who are medically healthy but do not experience a sense of inner well being, because their energy system is lethargic. You can only activate this energy by yoga and meditation. Medical science is limited to just knowing the physical bodies, disease and infection can be treated by medicines. However, for chronic aliment the root cause is always energy body. Every body loses energy as the years go by and this energy will dissipate over the time - this is called ageing and nobody can escape from it, because this is natural cycle created by God.  Positive attitude is a very good thing to live a healthy life. Age is only a number, old age is also an opportunity no less then youth. All our health problems start from our g...

Desire is your greatest enemy. Whenever a person is angry, behind that anger is a desire. Have you ever observed that whoever you are angry with or hate, you think of that person more than yourself. Our life has two sets of memories - 1) memories of pleasant things and 2) memories of unpleasant things. Children often have pleasant memories more than unpleasant; that's why they are so cheerful! What we need to embrace are pure desires of creative impulses, because this is the fuel for inner perfection. Desire is that glorious spark of energy that ignites dormant dreams. Desire implies a state where there is a movement towards growth, so always desire to learn something useful. Desires cannot be fulfilled at any stage of life, when one desire is fulfilled another desire crops up. When our mind acquires the object of its desire, it goes with something else and this thirst continuous the whole life, so you are advised only to control and regulate your mind. Modern life encourag...